after the chuppah

Nothing is more wonderful than a good marriage in which both husband and wife provide each other with love, understanding, support, respect, and protection from the harshness of the outside world. And nothing is more devastating than a bad marriage, where verbal abuse turns the home into a battlefield. This book deals with these issues and others that help us achieve peace and harmony in marriage, even if it has not fulfilled the expectations with which we initially dreamed.

Title : After the Chuppah Category : Marriage and Family

Description: Miriam Adahan, author of this volume, maintains that the difference between a good marriage and a bad one lies in the level of communication between the couple. Indeed, the best expression of love is the willingness to listen. Surprisingly, the preparation for marriage begins from birth, when the child begins to gain communication skills. Therefore, people bring to marriage the habits and beliefs that they learned in their childhood. As a consequence, some adults enter marriage with false expectations learned in childhood. Miriam Adaha gives us guidelines to follow so that history changes, making marriage work correctly in all expectations.

Why I recommend it: This book will produce better communication in your marriage. If there were bad expectations in your parents around marriage, this book will teach you how to listen first, but also to see your relationship as an opportunity for spiritual growth by being compassionate, patient, merciful and humble. Also, it will assist you in overcoming feelings of inferiority and avoiding a destructive marriage.